How not to feel used!

The one way to not feel used is only give what you really want to give, and have no expectations of the person returning anything in any way. Not all people know how to care for other people. If I can’t give something just from my heart then I don’t give. And most of the time I don’t give much other than my time. The reason I don’t give is most people who are needy have learned to be takers and they have nothing really to give back. They feel like people owe it to them to help. I don’t want to buy people’s love, either they enjoy me for who I am and enjoy spending time with me or they don’t. If they don’t then so be it, it is not about me, it is about them. I just don’t fit into their mold. And that is okay. The key is learning to love yourself. Moving past anything you did yesterday or before. Every day you are a new person, it is only what you do today that counts. As your mind gets more clear you will be able to deal with things better not allowing things to effect you as much and stop taking stuff personal. As you learn to love yourself what other people think or do just won’t matter that much. People just want to do what they want to do and most people just are not that social. They have their few friends they have developed over the years and just don’t have time to be a good friend to new people. I have a hard time just being a good friend to the few people I choose to have in my life today. I have always been a person who cares to much and allow people to effect my feelings. Learning to do and remember the things said above helps me to love me in a greater way. I hope it helps! God bless