These are the things God is showing me right now!!!

 1. I cannot control people, places, and things. Allowing them to get to me is hurting me and really the people care about themselves.
We are suppose to have love one to another! Now if I am not feeling love from someone and they tell me they love me yet never make an action to show that love. I should feel them really loving me. Not just saying it.

2 He is showing me that when I try to control things rather then giving him the control. It causes anger, fear, hatred, envy, strife and eventually sin and ungodliness. It makes me judge people also.

3. Is judgement and complaining which aslo leads to sin and ungodliness. I am not the judge God is and he is the one who is in control of others no us we really don’t know a persons situation or why they do what they do. So unless we can walk a mile in their shoes . We cannot understand so me must stop judging ! A very wise man once told me the one who judges another is the one doing the least.

4. I am suppose to stop complaining. Find the good in every situation. Even things we know are not right or have to do with other short comings we should find the good in it. If we are complaining were are allowing people, places, things to control us rather then doing what I said above if it to God and let him control. Whatever situation that is causing you discomfort.

5. Work on my own self and situations like the things above and stop trying to help others weith their problems and situations . That are out of my control anyway. People are going to do what they are going to do. If they suffer enough they will change. If not then they will reap what they sow. This stops us from feally anger and us thinking we are not worthy or intelligent enough. Or they would do what we sudjest, then being in that spirits causes me to think all kind of negative things about myself and others.

6. Stop putting off things until tomorrow that I can handle today. Tomorrow might never come. If God, the world, our boss, or our mate asks us to do something do it right then. Sometimes things are not going to happen right away. We must keep our eyes and ears open for the right time and do it.

8. To forgive myself and dump the dump truck. Don’t think about the past and dwell on things that happened to me ysterday that I can not fix or control. Think on things that are today and handle them through prayer and asking God. We must believe he can help and handle these things in his time not ours.

9. I must avoid the appreance of evil. Flee from it and have no part in it. Stay away from people who cause me to loose self control.
People who will lead me off the pathway God wants me to stay on.

10. Is very important find the things in yourself you really like and practice those things. Love yourself. It is very hard and even impossible to love someone else until we learn to love ourselves first.

Remember godliness with contentment is great gain. Put him first he tells me and he will help me to overcome these character defects and it will make me so much more happy then I am. Also stay away from things that cause me to be depressed.